Monday, December 25, 2017

Christmas 2017

Happy Holidays! Or mostly happy, at least. I've tried to stay on the jolly side without remembering this time last year when Emily was building gingerbread houses with us. It's a hard holiday without her. I've been sad, really sad, not so sad, and occasionally happy with a hint of sad. Basically, I'll always be sad and I'm just going to have to deal with that.

Aaaaaaannnnnywaaaaay.

Christmas was pretty great. Jena spent the weekend with us and Alex came over Christmas afternoon. We had our Octoberfeast (minus the deviled eggs because they froze overnight), but with a mince meat fruit cake I made from the World of Warcraft cookbook I received this past Mother's Day. My first run of it was actually really good. The candied ginger takes some getting used to, but other than that, the cake itself was great. My second run was just not good. I couldn't even eat an entire slice. I probably put too much brandy and the texture of the orange zest was not good. I felt like Rachel when she made the trifle. However, I've made some notes and plan to make a third run for New Year's. I'll update the results when the time comes. Also, we bought dinner rolls and completely forgot to make them.

We grabbed a pic with Santa earlier in the month, as well as drove around to look at lights. I've been working so much, we've had to squeeze in time to do things together as a family. It's been rough.

This entire year, I've been spring-cleaning. My kids have toys they never play with, clothes they never wear, etc. so I've been going through things and making trips to the consignment shop and the thrift store for the past few months. I did a lot of thinking on what to get the kids so they each had roughly the same amount of gifts to open, but the gifts would actually be used. I normally don't mention the things they get for the holidays (aside from what's shown in pictures) because I find it silly, but seriously, I'm proud of myself this year. EVERYTHING was considered in each purchase. Will they play with it? How long? Is it durable? Will it last a year? Will it get boring? Can it be passed to a younger sibling? Can it be shared?

Jac is eleven this year, so I took his age into account of what types of things he may like. We don't have cable, so aside from Minecraft, he doesn't have much he's interested in. So, here's the rundown for Jac:

  • Star Wars socks.
  • Pokemon wallet. His Cars wallet just wasn't screaming Big Kid.
  • R2D2 mug with a pack of hot chocolate.
  • Gingerbread Latte shower gel and body cream. He's got dry skin like Mama and the scent isn't girly.
  • Hand sanitizer.
  • Dog Pile puzzle. It requires logical thinking, so it's a fun workout for the brain.
  • Hooded bath robe.
  • Minecraft Steve playset, which is one of his favorite gifts he's "ever" received.
  • Four-piece snack food erasers. One can never have too many erasers.
  • Pokepark for the Wii from Santa. He's been asking for the game all year.
Leah is eight, so this is her list:
  • Star Wars socks.
  • BB-8 wallet because Frozen just isn't cool anymore.
  • Wide hairbrush. Covers more ground, less time to remove tangles. Also has a fun pattern of rainbows and cupcakes all over it.
  • Sugar Plum Swirl shower gel and body cream. It's fruity and purple, but not too grown-up.
  • Hand sanitizer.
  • Cat Stax puzzle. Also requires logical thinking, but with cats.
  • Hooded bath robe.
  • Minecraft Alex play set. A favorite as well.
  • Cupcake bath bomb because Girlfriend is all about the bath bombs lately.
  • Four-piece dessert food erasers that claim to be scented but smell like erasers.
  • Zoomer Cat, which came from Santa. Said gift was asked for last year, but she got a disappointing Meowzie instead. Zoomer is interactive and pretty awesome. It even rolls on carpet.
Elias is two:
  • Large Magnadoodle with shape magnets.
  • Let's Go Fishing board game, which he loves and can be played with by up to 4 players.
  • Five-pack of Hot Wheels cars because Bun is absolutely bananas for cars or anything with wheels.
  • Mickey Mouse socks.
  • Hooded bath robe.
  • Small wooden puzzle with matching pictures for easy assembly.
  • The Nightmare Before Christmas storybook. Zac was jealous.
  • Bath crayons. A hit. Seriously.
  • Frosted Coconut Snowball shower gel and body cream. He loves "loshie" after baths, so the coconut is a nice scent for him. He says, "Mm, nummy good!"
  • Hand sanitizer. Helpful when potty-training.
  • Two-in-one tricycle from Santa. He LOVES his bike.
The best part about most of the gifts is that they are either to be worn or used up, so they aren't permanent. The socks are needs, and the rest will be played with for quite a while. I'm not sure how I'll top next year, so we may take a trip or they just might get edible gifts.

Sunday, December 10, 2017

Church

Tonight was the Christmas Cantata. I didn't participate this year because I hate looking out at the congregation and Emily's bright pink hair isn't out there. I got choked up when I went back to practice after she died and then just quit the choir all together. I don't know if I'll join again later, but right now, I just can't do it.

Leah snagged a duet with her friend, Kylee, and they were dressed up all fancy together. Leah wasn't even nervous, but she said Kylie makes her feel more comfortable. After the music, we filled up on all the junk food. I always liked going to church fellowships at Christmas time. People don't hold back on the sweets.

Friday, December 8, 2017

Snow 2017

Last night, Zac told me we could probably expect snow sometime around 1am. I was wrapped burrito-style in our nine-year-old comforter, wearing Emily's knee-high card suit socks, shivering beside him, reading The Help. In the past, our Southern Snow has been mere icy raindrops, melting upon contact, refusing to stick. The ice that did stick was nothing more than a frosty death trap. I looked out the window at 1am to disappointing darkness. At 6am, Zac's alarm went off. He, like me, gets excited about snow, so I felt him roll away to peek out the window. "Oh, man," he said, "you're going to love this." I'm still picturing the ground covered in melting ice in my head, but took the chance to look anyway. Love it much I did.



I'm not a morning person. Or maybe I like mornings, but don't like getting up early. It's one of those. But, this morning, I was out of bed and in the kitchen to reach outside and feel the snowflakes falling before I even put on pants. By 6:30am, I decided to take the risk of waking the kids so they could see the "fluffy snow". My kids have seen the ice snow, but none have ever seen the fluffy snow. The big kids were asleep, but let me persuade them to "just look outside real quick, then you can go back to sleep." Leah was out the door without a sweater or socks to run around before I could get her back in a bundled up. Then, I woke up Elias, who was not at all happy about that, but let me wrap him up to show him the snow. He asked for "swedder on? shoos on?" and I brought him outside. It's been a magical day. Top it off with having the day off work because it's too icy with the possibility of Zac coming home a bit early this afternoon and we've got ourselves an awesome Friday.

Monday, December 4, 2017

Ice Skating

Zac took the morning off to come with the kids and me to an ice skating rink with the homeschool group. The last time I went ice skating was back in 1999. I wasn't good at it then, nor am I good now, but Leah got the hang of it so quick. She was impressive. Jac was more timid, but managed to skate a bit without holding the wall. I fell and hurt my bad knee (of course), but we had a fun time. Zac didn't get to skate since he was holding Elias, but he didn't mind having some quality time with his Weirdos on Ice.